Before joining our 1:1 mentoring programme with Blackpool FC Community Trust (BFCCT), Lucas, a young football enthusiast with dreams of joining Blackpool FC academy, struggled with anxiety and low self-confidence.
His anxiety led to frequent school absences and hindered his participation in football training sessions, despite his passion for the sport. Lucas’ lack of self-belief prevented him from recognising his football talents and pursuing his dreams.
Since starting the 1:1 mentoring programme with BFCCT, Lucas has shown remarkable improvement. Initially shy and reluctant to engage in conversations, he set three key goals: initiating conversations in new situations, becoming more independent, and building the confidence to run with the ball during football.
Throughout nine sessions, Lucas made significant strides in these areas. He now regularly attends football training, engages more confidently in social situations, and even enjoys everyday activities like shopping and hanging out with friends.
The mentoring sessions have been instrumental in Lucas’ transformation. Each session included a mix of creative activities, practical tasks, and discussions, all aimed at boosting his self-esteem and confidence.
One key activity for Lucas was creating an ‘about me’ poster, where he highlighted his positive attributes and memories. This poster serves as a personal reminder of his strengths and is displayed in his room to help combat negative thoughts.
Lucas’ overall well-being has improved significantly. His school attendance has increased, and his form tutor has noted a positive change in his attitude towards school. He no longer misses sessions due to anxiety, indicating a significant reduction in school-related stress.
Lucas now looks forward to socialising with his friends and is much more confident in his football abilities. He enjoys attending football games with his dad and engages with his peers.
The confidence Lucas has gained through the programme has extended beyond football. He feels more self-assured in various aspects of his life, stating,
“Taking part in the confidence-building activities has helped a lot, including when I play football too. I am more confident in going to the shops and going out with friends now.
“The most valuable thing I have taken away from the programme is my confidence and being able to do more things independently”
Through the 1:1 mentoring programme, Lucas has transformed from a shy, anxious boy into a confident, independent young man, ready to pursue his dreams and tackle new challenges with a positive mindset.
